Your thinking

is it right or wrong don't care about this...but one thing I want to tell u is that there are many situation in life when you feel alone as there is nobody to give company you .All are busy in their own task, this is due to either you are not with a people having same interest or you are not have enough power to attract them towards your vision. This is a perfect time when you realize who you are?from attitude to behavior, from patience to anger, from love to surrender all the habits you have ...you start judging about it but you realize you are alone.

so, I am here to provide a solution for it, the first thing you can done is to love yourself don't go into the thoughts of what other feels about YOU, be ready to learn about your behavior, give sometime to you to realize the path you are going to follow, it’s the you only who is going to rule over the world on your shoulder, you are the only person responsible for every situation or problem or happiness you face in life. nobody is here to give you any sort of help if you are not helping yourself, there is no one who is going to guide you unless you are not self motivated, you are the only entity in this world who decides wrong and write of the world and do not care of what others thought about you. You have to take lessons from you only.

 now it’s the time to learn from the past and go for the future ...there is a lot of difference between what you were and what you are, it’s up to you to fill the pages of your future, you have a blank set of thoughts which you have to fill by your imaginations .all is set it’s just a need for you to go ahead with you.

CHILD LABOUR

It was the early morning like any other day but there were few things that happened with me on that day which made me think of some issues related to the loopholes in our system and most importantly related to our future generation. I woke up and started my day with tea in my hand. I was standing in the balcony when suddenly I saw a boy, approx. 10 years old, on a bicycle distributing newspapers. A thought struck me, ‘this boy distributing paper, did he ever think about what is written inside? Did he ever think about the rights provided to him by the government? Did he ever bother about the getting educated? Going to school?’ It disturbed me.

His eyes were full of sadness, heart full of dreams, but either because of stomach or because of financial problem he had to distribute paper. I thought about the rich people, the rich kids and how they spend their mornings. I am sure it’s full of comfort unlike that boy in the street.

It did hit me for few seconds but soon I moved on as it is a regular case in the country. I walked to a Tea shop and again I saw a child serving tea and getting scolded by the owner. I saw as he sadly stared at the children of his age going to a school in a uniform. I saw in his eyes how deliberately he wanted to go to school but then,

Shop owner scolded him again - “Do your work properly.”

I said – “He is just a child.”

Shop owner – “I don’t care. His father urged me to give work to him.”

I said – “You shouldn’t do it.”

Shop owner – “I pay his father 300 a month.”

This was the moment I felt that the dream of this country can be sold in merely 300 rupees. And, the tuition fees of a private school Rs. 3000 a month. Is this country providing equal opportunities to all? How can these poor children get the basic education if the fees is so high and they are clutched with the responsibility of earning?

I moved on again with a heavy heart. Waiting for the college bus, again I saw some children on a footpath with open hands circulating around every person on the stop in hope of getting just one penny. A girl from that group came to me, she must be approx. 6 years old -

“I didn’t eat anything since morning. Please give me something to eat bhaiya.”

The voice I heard was so full of panic and sadness. And people across me keep telling me that they are trained beggars don’t give money to them. I was shocked by the mentality of the citizens. Even beggars can be trained? If yes then WHY? It’s not the profession that anybody would ever want to choose. It was alarming!

From that day onwards, I encountered many children of age below 14 years working like a labor in some shop, in some school, in some business firm. Do the owners not realize that it is declared as a sin by the government? Child Labor is a punishable offence.

From the report – The 2001 national census of India estimated the total number of child labor, aged 5–14, to be at 12.6 million, out of a total child population of 253 million in 5-14 age group. The child labor problem is not unique to India; worldwide, about 217 million children work, many full-time.

10 things you must remember

It’s a strange world where people want to die on something they love, the world is full of dreams and desires and it’s our vision that how we can relate it with ourselves, we have seen the way people like and dislike other people some have the reason and some do not have but they do irrespective of their concern about others. I met many people some are great with their conversations and some are not so good, some are very talented in presenting themselves and some do not so much good to present themselves but one thing come out from this is interest in you and the other whom you are taking in the topic going on.

Many times people will ask about introduction and many times they want more from you, it’s the first meeting where you can prove them about your vision, your attitude and your personality, the second time they meet with you are not concerned about who you are, it’s the first time they know who you are and what your plans and how will you benefit them in their work. It’s the general ritual of this world to make contact with you and see who you are to get a profit from you. It’s not only others do but you also took the same path in many situations.

So the topic is that how you can be benefited from talking and discussing others, you have to keep few things in your mind to make you in position where people will not treat you like an entity and you will not treat others as a commodity.

1.     Welcome other people with a smile on your face ,I know it’s  a general thing and you all know about it but it’s the first thing by which you and also others think them as a safe talking to you, if you go to them by a irregular facial expression ,they will threatened and you will also feel insecure.

2.     Discussed about the topics something you are familiar with and other one also, don’t go for the topics where one knows many things and other is just arguing about it to make him correct, its only make out relation worst.

3.     Never discuss about the activities of a people you know in common because one will always meet them and tell about it to the person that affects your or their relation with the person.

4.     Never show the achievements or awards you have got without asking about it, it makes you as people who showoff and other people will also regret about not having it and they always try to be away from you in next meet.

5.     Do not try to be over smart, if you have arranged a party to show them, it will only take them to think that you are alone and you want a company of people that’s why you have arranged a party to them.

6.     Never ever argument with anyone ,if you win they have bitter value towards you at the end if you lost it will feel them you are a loser who always wants to win with a wrong statistics in hand.

7.     Take care that you should not disclose any personal talk with them, because if you do, in future they can blackmail you.

8.     Your family is important so never ever give details about your family members in a first meet, and never show them who you are actually, belong to higher class, middle class or lower class.

9.     Never ever disclose your salary and office details with them, its enough to share designation and company name.

10. The last but not least ,always take interest in their talk whatever they are telling it feels them that you are a good person who have high values instead you are listening to them.

These were the best practices you can go for if you want to be a person, who knows for a good personality and better behavior than others, by applying these traits in your life you can easily get contacts and never ever fail in any mission because of only just a talk. A discussion matters more than that any other thing matter, so keep it simple and enjoy talking with others.